Fight… How does it start?

Yesterday Tating (Dion) just go home from Bohol after over a week of being there. We talked about what happen to us while we were away from each other. I miss him so much. Kimatt and Myqy invited Me and Tating in McDoJones for a small chitchat. This was already about 12:30am when we got out from the house. When we arrive at McDoJones we were greeted by Kimatt and Myqy with big smiles in their faces. We stated off by talking about what happen to us and updates in our relationships. Kimatt and Myqy are also couples of same sex. They’ve been together for about a year and 5 months – July 25 is their monthsary. I also greeted them that it is their monthsary and they didn’t even remember. Well me and Dion sometimes forget that it is our monthsary but we just laugh about it.

As the the conversation went on and the topic got deeper, Myqy offered that he would buy us something to eat. So I ordered a cup of coffee and large fries. Dion got a Iceagefries and a Sunday. While laughing and talking about stuff we’ve missed out from eachother, chaos came in.

I didn’t mean Chaos the Greek God but chaos literally. While Dion and Myqy were talking about the movie that we’ve watched lately. Kimatt whisperedand told me that something bad happened to both of them. They’ve gone abstinentfor about a month now. I was shock with a smile in my face and asking “Why, what happen?”. Kimatt told us that they had a infectionand he is sure that he got it from Myqy. Well, Myqy got this long time ago and he said that he already go treated. He dicovered that he got it when he and Alvin(Ex-bf) where together. I couldn’t believewhat Kimatt told us but for them to not worry I just said “Dah! Don’t worry about that… It will just go away.” Kimatt, continued the story of what happen and his explanationregarding what happended to them and to the point of tell inforamtion that we were not suppose to know. Kimatt told the story of Mqyq and what happened in his past. I just listen and gave side comments of the issue. While we were Kimatt was talking Myqy texted himthat it was already to personal what he was telling us. We continued talking about what happened. Then Kimatt read his text messages, then it all started there.

Kimatt was angry why Myqy did not stop hm before he told us everything. Mqyq explained that he was embarrassand didn’t to cut him off while he was talking. Kimattstarted to louder his voice but it was a whisper. I know that it would start there, Dion even tried to stop Kimatt but he can’t be stop. Kimatt is a kind of person that would not listen because he knows he is right. We would not let anyone stop him or correnthim when he is explaining. I didn’t cut him off and told him to just forget about it. Let just continue and move on but no Kimatt still insisted that Myqy could have stopped him before he could have told us what happened. He then started to clean out his books and went straight out of McDo Jones. I told Myqyto stay and I went and caught up with him. I told him to stop and drop the whole issue but started to tell me that it is always Myqy’s fault. Then he starts to talk about the first time that Myqy cheated on him. He told him to tell Myqy that if he would not get out from there he would create a scandal. I told him to just drop it and let it be. Myqy already got over the issue but couldn’t be stop. He went back inside but go thing Myqy said to Dion that they’ll just have to go out.

Then they argue like there is not tomorrow. Kimatt can’t be stop. He won’t listen and he don’t like it if you do not agree on his points. I explain my side and told him to just forget it. I was just happy that Myqykept his temper. Dion could take any more so he just sat down.

I don’t know why every time me, Dion, Kimatt, and Mqyq would get out together these things would happen. I don’t know why Kimatt why he can’t take a sorry. I proud of Myqy for putting up all the bull Kimatt has. Dion is very happy didn’t got the same issue as they have.

For all you couples out there never deal with a issue with a hot head. Cool down first then start talking about it and listen first. Let your partner finish what he/she is saying before talking. You should always have a open mind.